A Resident’s Story: Finding Their Way Back To Connection
When the resident arrived at Oakbank Care Home from hospital, they were carrying more than just the effects of a physical setback. After a long period of isolation at home, the resident’s confidence had fallen, and they no longer felt part of the world around them. The resident spoke about feeling disconnected and unsure of where they belonged.
The resident had spent a career as a nurse; caring for others had always been part of who they were. But when the resident first moved in, that sense of purpose felt distant. They were wary of being in a care home and unsure whether to trust the staff or the support being offered. In those early days, they would often kept to themselves and found it difficult to engage with others. Still, the resident shared something about themselves that stood out; they liked to help people and wanted to feel useful again.
The team began by gently encouraging the resident to rebuild strength and confidence at their own pace. A simple step-counting initiative using pedometers became an unexpected turning point. It tapped into the resident’s competitive side and gave them something to focus on. Step by step, the resident began to build stamina and with it, confidence.
Walking soon became a regular part of the resident’s routine, and what started as individual support grew into something more social, eventually leading to the development of a weekly walking group. The resident is now part of the Sunday walking group and enjoys getting out and about, something that once felt out of reach. The resident also took part in a 12-week one-to-one supported walking programme in the community, further helping them feel more independent.
As confidence returned, so did the resident’s natural caring instincts. The resident now spends time knitting for a local charity supporting people experiencing homelessness, a quiet but meaningful way of reconnecting with the role once held as a nurse. It reflects the same compassion and desire to help others that has always been part of who the resident is.
Today, the resident is no longer on the sidelines. They help welcome other residents into the walking group, which has grown to include several people. Regular walks in the garden are now filled with conversation and a sense of achievement. More importantly, the resident feels part of a community again and is involved in far more of the life of the home.
As Julie Davies, Wellbeing Manager, says: “It’s lovely seeing the resident getting out and about, participating and being able to continue with things that make them happy.”
Pamela McLaughlan, Administrator, adds: “Seeing the resident getting fitter and taking part in the walking challenge is fantastic - they’re very competitive when it comes to getting the most steps in!”
This resident’s journey is a reminder that even after difficult periods of isolation and uncertainty, it’s possible to rebuild confidence, rediscover purpose, and feel part of something again, especially when the things that matter most are brought back into everyday life.
